Saturday, February 5, 2011

Its cougar town

The wise man and king-Solomon said that there is nothing new under the sun and to my amazement I see almost a reoccurrence in everything, from fashion to cars to house designs and to anything trendy...but there seem to be one I don’t think has existed before now. If u think it has, maybe you have to share. It’s COUGAR TOWN
I can’t tell if it has happened before but just like the life span of man has been gradually reduced from over 900 in the days of Adam to 50 in some countries now, we have seen the age men and women get married gradually push up from late teens and early twenties in our parents and grandparents era to early thirties and late thirties now, God forbid it gets to early forties. But the concern here really isn’t for on the guys, cos once a guy got some necessities, he can do it even at 50.
The talk is now on the ladies, a time has come when she crosses a certain age without no real relationships she gets pressured and after say about a few more years down the line is either she resigns her fate to become either a "mature lady" or its "welcome to Cougar town”. The problem here is in Africa and especially Nigeria we frown at COUGARISM...if there's any word like that but in true word does it really matter? Could it really be a trend in the near future or will it continued to be frowned at, Cos I have seen folks do it here and there. Wouldn’t it really help the female folk get the pressure off their shoulders if its generally acceptable, cos in the long run its about living happily and fulfilling purpose...what are the dangers if any, how many of you won’t mind doing it????
Please don’t read and walk away....drop a comment it can help clear the confusion in some peoples head

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